how come when a baby falls ill, the husband will blame the wife.

a colleague of mine juz came to my workstation, talking abt what
happen yesterday and started to cry....
apparently, her baby of 5months has skin allergy. Being a
worried mother, she goes around asking people and reading up the
internet for a cure. Some article in the internet and some people
say that goat milk will help in certain way.
So she fed her little baby yesterday evening with goat milk. In
the middle of the night, this baby develop rashes all over his
body. Both the husband and wife(my colleague) rush their baby to
the hospital. On the way to the hospital, the husband kept scolding
and yelling at the wife, telling her that he will not forgive her
if anything happen to the baby. And scolded her for her stupid
act.......
Luckily the baby is ok after a jab....
haiz....
not all the time.. i think the husband is stupid.. stress out the
wife even more...
always solve problems first.. then figure out next time cannot
do what.. no point blaming because the wife isn't trying to harm
the baby..
besides, "to love and honour, to have and to hold, in sickness
and in health" is very important.. lots forget..